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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 11:08

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I took a video of my serve (60 FPS) and it took 0.4 seconds from my racket to the service line. How fast would you say my serve was?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why is that Hag Hillary Clinton so quiet these days? She is the dog that isn't barking

That's it for today.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What is your opinion on the belief that one can change their life by changing their thoughts and having a positive mindset?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

What's a joke you haven't used yet, but are dying to share?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

There was this one weird Bollywood movie that was released in the 2000s. Amitabh Bachchan was starring with another actress and the story was about how the old guy (Amitabh Bachchan) fell in love with the young woman. What is the name of this movie?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?

What I need from you?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Are people who cite the 2nd Amendment honestly familiar with what it establishes?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Are INFJs essentially the most introverted type?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is the process of becoming an Evangelical preacher? Is attending seminary school necessary? How long does it typically take? Is it financially challenging?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why doesn't California have the tools, people, means to put out these fires even though they know there will be fires every year?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How long would you let a homeless friend stay at your house?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.